"The Attack"
There seem to be a number of interesting Israeli movies out there and the film that I discovered only from the boycott of it by a number of Arab nations seems to be another example. (The boycott is due to the film being filmed in Israeli though the filmmaker is actually Lebanese). It rates well, with 94% positive reviews from critics and 77% positive reviews from audiences. Here's the trailer:
On the related note of whether or not a female suicide bomber is a realistic scenario, based on available data two thirds of suicide bombers from 1998 to 2001 in Chechnya were female. Female suicide bombers also inflicted more than twice as many casualties per bombing as their male counterparts.