What I found when reading "Taken into Custody: The War Against Fatherhood, Marriage, and the Family"

I've mentioned Stephen Baskerville before, but only recently began reading his book Taken into Custody: The War Against Fatherhood, Marriage, and the Family. The book pointed me in the direction of a rather crazy case. I've excerpted the first paragraph of an article about the case below (which also supplies references to the actual court decisions):

During her divorce proceedings, Bonnie repeatedly claimed that Doug Richardson was the father of her child, but the child told Doug that Bonnie stated that Abraham Flores was his real father. The court refused Doug's request for a continuance to obtain counsel to assist in contesting paternity. The Michigan Court of Appeals affirmed. A paternity test excluded Doug as a possible father of the child. Bonnie resumed living with Abraham, but Doug was forced to pay child support into the household of the child's real father. Later, Bonnie and Abraham broke up with a formal change of custody from Bonnie to Abraham. The Michigan State Court ordered Doug, the nonfather, to pay child support directly to Abraham, the biological father.

Source: Equal Justice Foundation

Dave's new toy

Given that I've been talking about being distracted lately, naturally the obvious next step is to buy more toys. In that spirit, yesterday I picked up a blu-ray / network video player. Incidentally it also happens to play PS3 games.

Why now? Call it a combination of a few things: a recent 25% price cut, a new model which sucks much less power and takes up much less space, a save-double-the-tax sale, and a freebie thrown in. I'm also trying to move entertainment to a separate sphere to see if that helps improve concentration.

This move was also part of home-upgrades weekend - which also consisted of stocking up the kitchen with a few new things. Every bachelor should have, e.g., a rolling pin floating somewhere around the house after all.

On another note, ever since getting the flu in mid-August I seem to have been getting sick again on a more regular basis. It's starting to drive me nuts!

How clean should your house be?

As it turned out, though, the electric iron was not quite the unalloyed blessing it first appeared to be. By making ironing "easier," the new appliance ended up producing a change in the prevailing social expectations about clothing. To appear respectable, men's and women's blouses and trousers had to be more frequently and meticulously pressed than was considered necessary before. Wrinkles became a sign of sloth. Even children's school clothes were expected to be neatly ironed. While women didn't have to work as hard to do their ironing, they had to do more of it, more often, and with more precision.

... As other electric appliances flooded the home through the first half of the century - washing machines, vacuum cleaners, sewing machines, toasters, coffee-makers, egg beaters, hair curlers, and, somewhat later, refrigerators, dishwashers, and clothes dryers - similar changes in social norms played out. Clothes had to be changed more frequently, rugs had to be cleaner, curls in hair had to be bouncier, meals had to be more elaborate, and the household china had to be more plentiful and gleam more brightly. Tasks that once had been done every few months now had to be performed every few days. When rugs had had to be carried outside to be cleaned, for instance, the job was done only a couple of times of year. With a vacuum cleaner handy, it became a weekly or even a daily ritual.

Excerpted from: The Big Switch: Rewiring the world, from Edison to Google, p. 99

Distracted

Although I cancelled cable a few weeks ago, the cancellation didn't take effect until earlier this week. One source of distraction gone... lots more remaining.

One of the challenges that Piper notes is that in this day and age our distractions are more readily available than in centuries past. Think of what the cell phone / MP3 players / computers make possible. (I probably spent as much time as a cable subscriber watching TV on my computer as I did on my TV - the joys of networks putting their shows online for on-demand access - so I'm not quite sure how much of an effect this change will have on me).

Currently reading: Distracted: The Erosion of Attention and the Coming Dark Age

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